He's In A Mood With Me For Asking Where I Stand ? Help ? (repost)?

I think once he had made you feel relaxed enough with him, which is what he was in the process of doing, he would have taken what he wanted after that. One way to make a person not feel used, is to tell them you are not using them, but you could be a liar. Change in his behaviour towards you makes me think he feels like he has been rumbled. You in any case have done nothing wrong and I would say well done to you for looking after your own interests as well. There are a lot of people out there who will take advantage. Think about it though, if you are doing your best to treat them well surely that is the least they can do for you in return. xx